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Review: Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe

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Gender Queer by Maia Kobabe

Gender Queer
Maia Kobabe
Lion Forge Comics
Published May 28, 2019

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About Gender Queer

In 2014, Maia Kobabe, who uses e/em/eir pronouns, thought that a comic of reading statistics would be the last autobiographical comic e would ever write. At the time, it was the only thing e felt comfortable with strangers knowing about em. Now, GENDER QUEER is here.

Maia’s intensely cathartic autobiography charts eir journey of self-identity, which includes the mortification and confusion of adolescent crushes, grappling with how to come out to family and society, bonding with friends over erotic gay fanfiction, and facing the trauma of pap smears. Started as a way to explain to eir family what it means to be nonbinary and asexual, GENDER QUEER is more than a personal story: it is a useful and touching guide on gender identity—what it means and how to think about it—for advocates, friends, and humans everywhere.

My Review

I think what’s really cool about this book is that the author takes time to give clear, well-explored explanations of key moments in eir life when eir identity came into focus. Maia Kobabe diligently and openly explains eir relationship with eir body as a child, an adolescent, and later as an adult. Why did female pronouns feel so wrong for em? Why do sexual fantasies feel so much more satisfying to em than experiences do?

Having these conversations plainly and openly offers solidarity to others having similar experiences. It shows people who have similar questions that they’re not alone. They’re not the first ones to feel a disconnect with their bodies. It also provides a roadmap for people who do not identify as genderqueer. Reading a book like this, a story that details someone’s personal experience, allows readers to bring questions to a safe space where there’s no judgment or intrusion. Reading about Maia’s experience allows us to listen and cultivate empathy for others who may have a different life experience than we do.

Banning Gender Queer

One of the reasons I opted to read this book is because I hear it discussed so often in the context of being banned in schools. If you’ve been on my blog awhile, you probably already know that I’m not a fan of book bans, and it’s not a position I came to lightly. The core of the decision really is this: as a parent, my job is to be part of the decision-making about books my child reads. It is not my job to decide which books are okay for someone else’s child to read.

With that said, I think GENDER QUEER brings some important topics to the table for discussion. It does address some mature topics, so I think it would generally be more appropriate to older readers.

Content Notes

Recommended for Ages 16 up.

Representation
Maia identifies as genderqueer and uses Spivak pronouns (e/em/eir), which are a set of gender-neutral, grammatically singular pronouns. Some other people appearing in the memoir are queer as well.

Profanity/Crude Language Content
Extreme profanity used very infrequently.

Romance/Sexual Content
References to gay pornography. References to sex. In one scene, Maia very briefly outlines with a partner the things e would not feel comfortable doing sexually. One line later states that e and eir partner have made out and had sex. In one scene, Maia lists a snippet of a sexually explicit conversation e had with eir partner and the divergence of eir feelings about the fantasy of the experience versus the actual experience.

Maia is also very open about eir personal experience with arousal and masturbation. E explains these feelings as part of a larger explanation of eir asexuality and/or gender dysphoria. It didn’t come across as something meant to be sexy. Instead, it appeared to be a thoughtful examination of how eir body reacts to touch and visual stimulation and how that might differ from others’ experiences.

There are a few panels that show some cartoon nudity. One panel shows two men kissing from their hips upward. One shows two men facing each other, referencing a fantasy Maia had based on Plato’s SYMPOSIUM. A couple show Maia from the side, sitting on a toilet, after e has discovered the start of eir period. One page shows Maia undressing for an examination with a gynecologist. One panel shows em naked from the front.

Spiritual Content
None.

Violent Content
Maia describes the pain of a gynecological exam as feeling like e has been stabbed through the abdomen. The illustration shows a torso without gender details with a blade stabbed through the abdomen. Another illustration shows a similar image, but from a side view.

Drug Content
None.

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Review: The 57 Bus by Dashka Slater

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The 57 Bus: A True Story of Two Teenagers and the Crime that Changed Their Lives
Dashka Slater
Farrar, Straus, & Giroux
Published October 17, 2017

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About The 57 Bus

One teenager in a skirt.
One teenager with a lighter.
One moment that changes both of their lives forever.

If it weren’t for the 57 bus, Sasha and Richard never would have met. Both were high school students from Oakland, California, one of the most diverse cities in the country, but they inhabited different worlds. Sasha, a white teen, lived in the middle-class foothills and attended a small private school. Richard, a black teen, lived in the crime-plagued flatlands and attended a large public one. Each day, their paths overlapped for a mere eight minutes. But one afternoon on the bus ride home from school, a single reckless act left Sasha severely burned, and Richard charged with two hate crimes and facing life imprisonment. The case garnered international attention, thrusting both teenagers into the spotlight.

My Review

I’ve had this book on my TBR for a long time, and I seriously can’t believe I waited so long to read it. What an incredible book! It blew me away.

What’s funny is that I’ve read several picture books by Dashka Slater (the Escargot books are a favorite in my house). This book is so different than those, and each is so well done.

It’s obvious that the author put so much care and thoughtfulness into the book’s structure. It’s got a ton of short sections. One defines some different queer identities. Another spells out the rights of a prisoner at a juvenile detention center. Others contain short stories or observations by Sasha or Richard or people close to them.

The narrative explores the lives of Sasha (victim) and Richard (perpetrator) with dignity and fairness. Nowhere does the author minimize or dismiss the seriousness of what happened to Sasha. She also includes interviews and statements from Richard’s friends and family, along with some biographical information about and statements from Richard himself. This way we get a more complete picture of both of the teens involved that terrible day on the 57 Bus.

Slater discusses how different people become targeted in hate crimes and the advancement and rolling back of protections for LGBTQIA+ people and the impact that has had. She also talks about the justice system, particularly in the process of juvenile offenders being charged as adults, and how that impacts the lives of young people and the community as a whole.

It’s such a powerful book. The points and information are clearly stated and related in a way that made me feel like I knew each of the people the narrative followed. I think this is a really important book for people to read.

Conclusion

Fans of true crime books and readers looking for compelling nonfiction or stories about LGBTQIA+ youth need to grab a copy of this one. Put it on your Pride Month reading list or read it on a weekend– the short sections and compelling writing make this a super quick read.

Content Notes

Recommended for Ages 14 up.

Representation
Sasha is agender and uses they/them pronouns. Some of their friends have LGBTQIA+ identities as well. Richard is Black. His family members and some of his friends are Black.

Profanity/Crude Language Content
Extreme profanity used somewhat frequently. The N-word is used, usually by a Black boy to his Black friends. There are a few homophobic statements.

Romance/Sexual Content
Some discussion of various sexual and gender identities and what the labels mean to the people using them.

Spiritual Content
None.

Violent Content
Contains brief but graphic descriptions of the burns sustained by Sasha when their skirt was set on fire on a bus and brief but graphic descriptions of the treatment of the burns.

Drug Content
References to the smell of pot smoke in bathrooms at school. Doctors prescribe morphine for Sasha during their recovery from burns and surgeries.

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Book Bans and The 57 Bus

THE 57 BUS is a frequently challenged or banned book. Author Dashka Slater offers this statement about book bans in general and in reference to this book.

Spring 2024 Backlist Reading Check-In and Life Update

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Life Update: It’s Been Wild

Whew. It has been a tough few months, y’all. Wowza. I had to take an unplanned break from reading because things got too overwhelming. And the weird thing is, there wasn’t a gigantic, immediate crisis at any point.

My kids hit some big milestones and needed extra support. My partner was traveling for work. It meant additional output from me, but nothing that I would have called unmanageable.

Except that it was. Which, thankfully, prompted me to get medical advice. I’ve had some low-key, annoying, but not dangerous, issues going on for a while. I thought by now, I’d be getting relief from new meds and treatment. But that didn’t seem to be happening. In fact, I felt worse.

Anyway, thankfully, I spoke with a nurse who not only really heard what I was saying but also pretty easily connected the dots and asked me to immediately stop the meds I was on. It turns out the medicine made me feel worse. Fortunately, there are other medicines to try, so I’ll start something new this week and hopefully continue feeling better.

So, yeah. I’ve been feeling a lot less than myself since December, but it happened so gradually it was hard to notice until now, looking back. At any rate, I am starting to feel better (aside from this head cold I’ve picked up), and I hope to get caught up on my reading in the next few weeks.

Spring Backlist Reading Check-In

Let’s move on to why we’re all here: books!

Most of these backlist titles I listened to as audiobooks. The only exception is the graphic memoir by Colin Kaepernick. I’ve found audiobooks to be a great way for me to work through my backlist since I’ll listen while I’m driving or folding laundry.

One of my goals this year is to read classic literature by women and/or BIPOC. I’m counting The Color Purple by Alice Walker and I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou toward that goal.

Another of my goals is to read some of the nonfiction titles I’ve had my eye on for a while. Killers of the Flower Moon by David Grann and The 57 Bus by Dashka Slater will count toward that goal– and they were both absolutely excellent!

Some of these books will appear on my Beat the Backlist and Read Harder challenge pages, too.

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Spring 2024 Backlist Reading

Colin Kaepernick: Change the Game by Colin Kaepernick, Eve L. Ewing, and Orlando Caicedo

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My thoughts: I actually read this because I came across a pretty scathing review of the book that struck me as… well, problematic at best. I wanted to read the book and see if that context made the reviewer’s comments make more sense. It didn’t, but I enjoyed the book a lot. It’s nuanced and thoughtful and focuses on Kaepernick’s life as a middle school and high school student and the challenges he faced.

Published March 7, 2023 | My Review to Come

The Ballad of Songbirds and Snakes (Hunger Games #0) by Susanne Collins

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My thoughts: Oof. I am glad I read this one, but I struggled. It’s kind of President Snow’s origin story. Taking a character that people so despised and writing a story in which he appears sympathetic has to be a huge writing challenge. There were parts that I thought were great and characters I liked. Overall, I’m glad I read it, but not sure it is something I’d ever revisit. (Though I did reread WUTHERING HEIGHTS this year, so who knows!)

Published May 19, 2020 | My Review to Come

The 57 Bus by Dashka Slater

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My thoughts: This is an absolute must-read. I loved the way the book is structured. Slater knows exactly when to zoom into the details and when to zoom out to show the system surrounding the people in the book. I’m still reeling from the book and can’t stop recommending it to everyone I can think of.

Published October 17, 2017 | My Review to Come

Vengeance of the Pirate Queen by Tricia Levenseller

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My Thoughts: It was fun to revisit Alosa’s pirate world again and follow a ship of mostly female sailors, but this one was kind of a miss for me overall. I couldn’t really get into the romance. It felt like he didn’t respect her boundaries because he knew what she needed better than she did. Could legitimately be my perception of the characters. I wish I’d connected with the story more.

Published November 7, 2023 | My Review to Come

Killers of the Flower Moon: Adapted for Young Readers: The Osage Murders and the Birth of the FBI by David Grann

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My thoughts: I discovered this YA adaptation while browsing for a new audiobook from my library. As soon as I started listening, I was hooked. I knew only the vaguest bits of history around the edges of these events. I kinda remember the Teapot Dome scandal and J. Edgar Hoover’s rise to the head of the FBI, but I knew nothing about the shocking murders of the Osage people and the racist practices that not only led to them but often protected the wrongdoers rather than the people being harmed. This is an absolute must-read.

Published November 16, 2021 | My Review to Come

We Deserve Monuments by Jas Hammonds

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My thoughts: This one has been on my reading list for a while, so I was excited to finally pick it up. I love the big city (Washington DC) to small town (Bardell, GA) vibes and the layers of mystery perfectly folded together in this book. It’s also an incredible intergenerational story about trauma, grief, and the way that we connect to our history. Some parts were hard for me to read, but the story as a whole really moved me. This book will stay with me a long time.

Published November 29, 2022 | My Review to Come

Once Upon a Broken Heart (#1) by Stephanie Garber

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My thoughts: It’s been a long time since I’ve read CARAVAL by Stephanie Garber, but I enjoyed it so much, that I knew I wanted to check out this series. Now that all the books in the series have been released, I think this is one I could seriously binge my way through. It’s got the same dangerous magical feel that CARAVAL had for me, and I think I like the forbidden love angle the story has going on. I’ll definitely read on for book two.

Published September 28, 2021 | My Review to Come

The Hazel Wood (The Hazel Wood #1) by Melissa Albert

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My thoughts: I can’t believe this came out in 2018! Have I really been saying I’m going to read it for six years?! Wowza. Anyway. It took me until probably the halfway mark of this book for me to decide that I really liked it. I think at the beginning, I kept waiting for the story to start? I expected Alice to spend 75% of the book in the Hazel Wood or Hinterland itself instead of the pace the actual story takes.

Published January 30, 2018 | My Review to Come

I Know Why the Caged Bird Sings by Maya Angelou

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My thoughts: One of my goals for this year is to read some classic literature written by women and/or BIPOC, so this will be one on that list. It’s the first in a series of autobiographies that Angelou wrote, focusing on her life from the ages of three to sixteen. I think this is the first book I’ve read that talks about the experience of segregated life from a Black perspective. It’s haunting and beautiful.

Published April 21, 2009 (Orig. 1969) | My Review to Come

The Color Purple by Alice Walker

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My thoughts: Some depictions of abuse in this book made it tough to read at times, but wow. Beyond those moments (and maybe also in spite of them?) it’s such a beautiful story about sisterhood and the strength women draw from relationships with one another. It’s about the power of community and the value of holding space for one another. Helping each other. I really enjoyed this book, and it’ll stay with me for a long time.

Published December 10, 2019 (Orig. 1982) | My Review to Come

Have you read any backlist titles lately?

If you’re participating in a backlist reading challenge this year, please let me know! If you have a page or post where you list the books you’ve read, please feel free to put a link to it in my comments. I’d love to check it out.

Have you read any of the books on my Spring 2024 Backlist Reading list? If so, please let me know what you think about them in the comments!

Review: This Woven Kingdom by Tahereh Mafi

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This Woven Kingdom (This Woven Kingdom #1)
Tahereh Mafi
HarperCollins
Published February 1, 2022

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About This Woven Kingdom

New York Times, USA Today, and Publishers Weekly bestseller! Clashing empires, forbidden romance, and a long-forgotten queen destined to save her people—Tahereh Mafi’s first in an epic, romantic trilogy inspired by Persian mythology.

To all the world, Alizeh is a disposable servant, not the long-lost heir to an ancient Jinn kingdom forced to hide in plain sight.

The crown prince, Kamran, has heard the prophecies foretelling the death of his king. But he could never have imagined that the servant girl with the strange eyes, the girl he can’t put out of his mind, would one day soon uproot his kingdom—and the world.

Perfect for fans of Leigh Bardugo, Tomi Adeyemi, and Sabaa Tahir, this is the explosive first book in a new fantasy trilogy from the New York Times bestselling and National Book Award-nominated author Tahereh Mafi.

“In a tale as exquisitely crafted as one of Alizeh’s own garments, Mafi weaves a spell of destiny and danger, forbidden love and courtly intrigue, magic and revolution.”—Cassandra Clare, #1 New York Times bestselling author of The Last Hours

“This Woven Kingdom is an exquisite fantasy. Rich with clever prose, delicious twists, and breathtaking world building. Prepare to be destroyed—this one will wrench at your heart and make it pound, and in the end it will leave you entirely speechless.”—Stephanie Garber, #1 New York Times bestselling author of the Caraval series

My Review

I started reading this book because a friend recommended it, and I’m really glad I did. I read the first book in the Shatter Me series by Mafi before but didn’t continue with the series. It’s been so long since that happened that I honestly couldn’t remember anything about her writing style or storytelling, so I pretty much went into this book without real expectations.

From the first page, the writing impressed me. It has this very rich, deep fantasy feel to it, the kind that won’t let you forget you’re reading about another world. I loved that. I also loved the characters. The narrative alternates between Alizeh and Kamron’s perspectives. The first few chapters follow Alizeh only, so I was a little surprised at Kamron’s first chapter, but very quickly, it becomes obvious how the two stories connect, and by then, I was completely hooked on the story.

I couldn’t read this book fast enough, honestly. The tension between Alizeh and Kamron was so intense. His relationship with his grandfather and her relationships with the apothecary and the young woman she sews dresses for all had me desperately wanting to know more.

As soon as I finished this book, I immediately started reading the second one. I have a feeling this is a series I’ll follow all the way to its end.

Content Notes

Recommended for Ages 12 up.

Representation
Based on Persian folklore.

Profanity/Crude Language Content
Mild profanity used very infrequently.

Romance/Sexual Content
Kissing between boy and girl.

Spiritual Content
There are two types of people in the world: humans, or those made of clay, and Jinn, or those with magic ability. There’s some lore about the devil being cast down to earth by the other gods and him producing the Jinn, though they’ve distanced themselves from him since then. The devil, called Iblees, appears to Alizeh periodically, and she ignores his riddles and messages.

Violent Content
A boy attacks a girl on the street with a knife. She fights back, injuring him enough to escape. References to war. A boy describes seeing his father’s partial remains and being told he must not show any pain at the sight.

A supervisor strikes a servant girl. Assassins attack an unarmed person who fights back. A man threatens to kill a young woman after she learns too much about his plans. A young man remembers a time he jumped from a bridge, trying to end his life. A man stabs another with a sword. Two young men fight with swords, one also using magic. A young woman strikes a man in the face hard enough to make him stumble back.

Drug Content
None.

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Review: Nimona by ND Stevenson

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Nimona
ND Stevenson
Quiltree Books
Published May 12, 2015

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About Nimona

The graphic novel debut from rising star Noelle Stevenson, based on her beloved and critically acclaimed web comic, which Slate awarded its Cartoonist Studio Prize, calling it “a deadpan epic.”

Nemeses! Dragons! Science! Symbolism! All these and more await in this brilliantly subversive, sharply irreverent epic from Noelle Stevenson. Featuring an exclusive epilogue not seen in the web comic, along with bonus conceptual sketches and revised pages throughout, this gorgeous full-color graphic novel is perfect for the legions of fans of the web comic and is sure to win Noelle many new ones.

Nimona is an impulsive young shapeshifter with a knack for villainy. Lord Ballister Blackheart is a villain with a vendetta. As sidekick and supervillain, Nimona and Lord Blackheart are about to wreak some serious havoc. Their mission: prove to the kingdom that Sir Ambrosius Goldenloin and his buddies at the Institution of Law Enforcement and Heroics aren’t the heroes everyone thinks they are.

But as small acts of mischief escalate into a vicious battle, Lord Blackheart realizes that Nimona’s powers are as murky and mysterious as her past. And her unpredictable, wild side might be more dangerous than he is willing to admit.

My Review

I see this book everywhere, and I know there’s now a movie version on Netflix, but I hadn’t read it until now. It reminds me a little bit of a slightly more sophisticated Dr. Horrible?

The main character, Ballister Blackthorn, has become a villain after his former lover and fellow knight-in-training sabotaged his final test. A powerful institution with some very shady practices governs the people, and Blackthorn spends his days obstructing their goals and doing other villainy.

Then Nimona, who appears to be a teenage girl, shows up and demands to be his sidekick. She takes things up quite a few notches, wanting Blackthorn’s plans to include more chaos, fire, and murder, which doesn’t sound hilarious, but as the two banter back and forth, it really is.

It’s definitely a wild superhero adventure that explores hero-villain connections in some interesting ways. I love the banter between Nimona and Ballister.

The text appears in a handwriting-style font that I sometimes had trouble reading, especially when it was placed really near to the inside edge of the pages, but other than that, I loved everything about this book. It’s definitely one I’ll be glad to have on my shelves, and one I’m happy to recommend.

Content Notes

Recommended for Ages 12 up.

Representation
Ballister and Ambrosius (two men) were once in a romantic relationship with one another. Ballister has a prosthetic arm.

Profanity/Crude Language Content
Mild profanity used very infrequently.

Romance/Sexual Content
References to a past romantic relationship.

Spiritual Content
None.

Violent Content
Situations of peril. Battle violence and some cartoon gore.

Drug Content
Two adult characters meet at a tavern for drinks and a chat.

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Review: Through the Wormhole by Chris Solaas

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Through the Wormhole (Life in Hyperspace #2)
Chris Solaas
Published August 28, 2023

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About Through the Wormhole: Humor, Hope, and Help from One Family with Autism to Another

The call for help seemed to come from the wall, and I knew there wasn’t a secret room there. That’s when I spied two bare feet sticking out of a hole in the wall. Holes in the wall. Setting fires in the house. Secret rooms and monsters in the closets. My wife and I never thought we’d have adventures like these raising our kids. After dealing with ADHD and its issues, we didn’t think autism would be anything we couldn’t handle. Boy were we wrong.

From our family to yours, here are humorous stories from our crazy past, mixed with ideas for handling some of the issues facing a family raising kids with autism. Inside you will find ideas for stimming aids, dietary help, and even links to companies who hire adults with autism. Humor, Hope, and Help for families like yours traveling Through the Wormhole.

My Review

This is the second nonfiction parenting support book that I’ve read by this author. One of the things I really appreciate about his books is his frank humility. It would be so easy to only report the parenting successes and goofball behavior that the kids get into, and instead, he often apologetically shares experiences where he wishes he’d responded differently. There’s something genuinely comforting about someone keeping it real like that– because we’ve all been the parent who lost their temper or said something sarcastic or overlooked something that turned out to be a safety issue.

The book alternates between sharing adventures in parenting a kid on the Autism spectrum and sharing tips and helpful resources, often with hyperlinks. He also shares things about his experience in the Christian church and community that may help parents navigate what isn’t always a neurodiverse kid-friendly atmosphere. Which, again, is the kind of gentle frankness that I really appreciate.

His parenting adventures are also really well-told. I got teary as he talked about saying goodbye to the family dog and laughed aloud at some of the unexpected conclusions his son drew about different situations.

The author’s hard-won parenting wisdom and encouragement to readers to pursue faith, self-education, and compassion for themselves and their kids make this a nice resource for Christian parents with a child on the Autism spectrum or anyone who wants to be better informed about supporting a family with neurodiverse kids.

I hope that parents who read this find it to be a welcoming, compassionate, and encouraging resource. I’ve also reviewed his other parenting book, which discusses his experiences discovering that he has ADHD and how he navigated parenting a child with the diagnosis.

Content Notes

Recommended for Ages 16 up.

Representation
The author describes himself as having ADHD with a touch of OCD. At least one of his children has Autism Spectrum Disorder. The author uses the term Aspergers or “Aspy” several times in the text, which may bother some readers. I’m not experienced enough to evaluate the representation in the book.

Profanity/Crude Language Content
None.

Romance/Sexual Content
None.

Spiritual Content
References to prayer, attending church, and other Christian spiritual practices and beliefs.

Violent Content
Some descriptions of mildly dangerous things, such as getting stuck on a roof or cleaning out the garage to get rid of spiders.

Drug Content
None.

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